The Fear of Failure When I wrote Unlearning What Worked, I thought I was writing about failure. Looking back, I don’t think I was. I think I was writing about the fear of failure. For much of my life, I believed the safest decision was to avoid situations where I might fail. If I wasn’t reasonably confident I could succeed, it often felt easier not to try at all. That mindset influenced far more than my career. It affected friendships, leadership opportunities, public speaking, and countless…





